would you mind ??
would you mind if your other half look at other girls or guys when they're out with you ?? would you mind?? apparently... i think it all boils down to your perspective of how you think relationship should be based on. this question rose in particularly because somebody was feeling confuse about why girls will mind when guys look at other girls! he feels that those people who mind? it's due to their insecurities and also because their relationship are base on superficiality and physical looks. well, i personally beg to differ. i think the reason why people will mind is because their other half is of utter importance to them ? and hence.... it'd matter and affect them a whole great deal because they'll wonder: if im important to my partner... then why does he/she have to look at other people?? he or she should not even have enough time to look at me !!! oh my !!! does this mean that im of no great importance to him/her??? and then they'll start doubting the love their partner feels for them.... coming from another source ..... according to him ? it's even worse when the other half not only looks but even comments??? because then... it'd make him feel more inferior??? like as though he's lousy??
well, my conclusion is that....... it's ok to just take a glimpse?? i mean ... who don't like looking at the beautiful artefacts hat god creates? it's a reason they exist dont they ? but the sinful part come in when the other half starts to comment ont he boy/girl they're checking out like : omg !!! she's so hot !! or wow... he slim down so much ! thats when trouble starts... so people.... looking is ok.... but .. BUT ... commenting is not acceptable !! so keep that in mind!
anyway ... i was reading rosie dunne for the FIFTH time ( that is how nice it is!!!) and i came across this nice passage ... read it . it's really beautiful and hopefully it IS true (:
here goes:
after all, soul mates always end up together.silly bethany won't even be remembered in a few years time. ex-girlfriends are easily forgotten. best friends stay with you forever.
right ... shall end here then .... was having a conversation with somebody while writing this post and he made me feel real lousy about myself. claudia shall not be sad. claudia shall not be sad.claudia shall not be sad.
